Pure Gold
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Pure Gold

In my pursuit of purity, I mistakenly focused my boundaries on peers, thinking them to be the potential source of temptation. However, I soon realized that the enemy's tactics were more nuanced, using the influence of the elderly instead. Fortunately, God's wisdom prevailed, and His mercy and grace guided me through the pitfalls of my journey.

Living in a generation characterized by intelligence and independence, we often believe that we can outsmart sin and evade its consequences. However, history and biblical narratives, such as those of Solomon, Samson, and David, remind us that every sin, especially deliberate ones, carries repercussions.

Emotional Affairs – Note to Singles
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Emotional Affairs – Note to Singles

A man said to me after reading the last post on "Emotional Affairs" or rather "Emotional Cheating", https://kfpark.com/emotional-affairs-2/ that he just have to find an alternative to his adamant challenge. He said and I quote, "My wife doesn't know how to kiss". I said, "Ehn! Ehn! Teach her na!", then he said,...

Emotional Affairs
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Emotional Affairs

Let me share an emotional cheating scenerio:

He flows easily with female gender, some even label him "romantic". When his marriage suffers, he gladly shift focus to emotional affairs option. Gets involved with an interesting, intelligent, smart, funny lady, with whom he spent as many times as he desires in the name of work or busy. The chemistry was obvious, but no sex neither did it ever occur? But, must you wait till then!

They made a connection with each other every morning, and their chats became more and more personal. He definitely talked to her about anything, although all in a way to satisfy his emotional hunger. "I talk to her about anything, including my wife, because my marriage was so unhappy. She really know how to satisfy my emotional needs.
Really! Okay! Bravo!

Memory of Amazing Year (MAY)
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Memory of Amazing Year (MAY)

This month of May is what I call the icing on the cake. The most important and pleasurable month which God will use to bring to life all that is dead and He will calm every storm in your life. This month of May, the breath of God will breath on you and your business....

Ah! Lord God (Character IV) Series V
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Ah! Lord God (Character IV) Series V

Entitlement mentality is one of the bad characters eating us deep in this generation. We are nice to people because we need this or that from them. Colossians 3:23 says whatever you do, do it as unto God, and not unto man.
We are quick to say to our children when we give them something, “so, what do you say”, and the child will quickly echo back, “Thank you”. Do we do it ourselves? The 5 magic words should be frequent in our mouth; Please! Excuse me! I’m sorry! Thank you! Pardon me!
There are ways to appreciate people. Many say it culturally, but not from their heart. If you truly appreciate someone and grateful to them, you will respect them, you will love them and you will value them.
The second aspect is to show our gratitude to God. Whatever God gives you is not just to consume it and dust your leg and go. In Luke 17:11-19, the bible tells of 10 leppers that were healed, only one came back to say “thank you” to Jesus. Jesus said, are there not ten cleansed, where are the other nine?

I am a Lady that cannot be Ignored
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I am a Lady that cannot be Ignored

I am a lady of honour and great value. My words are seasoned with the power of God, hence cannot be ignored. I receive grace to speak right as God declared of the daughters of Zelophehad. Great men will marvel at my words and exploit, kings and queens will come to my rising. The light of God that brings about prominence for glory shall bring me into greatness and peace. I receive wisdom to dominate, grace to be humble and not fumble, power to be wise and rise. Amen!

Ah! Lord God (Character III) Series IV
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Ah! Lord God (Character III) Series IV

1. Integrity – Integrity in its simplicity is “say it the way you will do it and do it the way you said it” So easy! I do that! You munched! Congratulations! Many of us are struggling with the value of integrity. They can’t talk and do, they believe that only God will say it and do it. But also remember you are a child of God, and you are not a bastard. When you sign the dotted lines of the agreement as an employee, do you stand by the rules? As a student, what are your values? how diligent are you? As a father/mother, are you walking in the true light of God’s Word and instructions? As an employee, do you resume at work at the appropriate time, at church, for appointments! And peradventure you WILL be late, how did you handle it. When you give your word, do you stand by it?

Ah! Lord God! (Character II) Series III
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Ah! Lord God! (Character II) Series III

This week, our focus will be on character in its action…Characters are shaped in childhood. We pick up our adult role from childhood. When a child comes from a godly home, and easily mix with ungodly children in school. This shows that the child works with the wise (home), but walks with fools in school. What will be the product of his life is who he/she walks with, hence the result we see in our children/ward today. Who they walk with is more important as to who they work with. That is why we need to be careful and walk with our children, because the quality of life is not hardwork, but results.
Why I went down to children is because the quality of adulthood is mostly dependent on the quality of childhood. This is why we are likened to a child even if we have given our lives to Christ as adult.
Ananias and Sapphira are one example of this in adulthood. They are a Christian couple, they work, dine, move with Christians (disciples), but never allowed the Holy Spirit to take total control of their lives. They want to feel among. Many are like that in church today, deceiving themselves, thinking they are deceiving others. Kindly read Acts chapter 5:1-11 and repent today, tomorrow might be too late.

Ah! Lord God! (Character) Series II
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Ah! Lord God! (Character) Series II

A man can work with the wise and not be wise, but no man will walk with the wise and not be wise…Abimbola
I likened wisdom to people you walk with, because our work and walk with others are one of the things that expose the quality of our lives. Whatever attitude you have as a man(human), all that you do boils down to intentions, motives and aspirations/goals. These are what guide your actions.
When this is in play, CHARACTER bags it or house it. It then follows that, what a man does or does not do begin to define his personality, his person and his achievements.
When you walk in the image of God, you act in the character of God, when you act in the character of GOD, you shine as light.
This background stem from last week introduction. Get to read it on… but for the purpose of this study, we will discuss character in light of WISDOM.

There is A King in You: Solitude (Series IV)
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There is A King in You: Solitude (Series IV)

God is not looking for service, He is looking for fellowship. When the Bible says in John 4:24 that God is looking for those who will worship Him in Spirit and in truth, He is saying that those who will spend time with ME to know me, you can’t spend such time with someone you don’t love, nor with someone you don’t respect. That is the true definition of WORSHIP. Worship is not engaging in slow songs to praise God, but engaging in solitude to KNOW GOD.
The choir in church lead us to worship, it means, they lead us to have FELLOWSHIP with God. Worship is not singing, it is an ATTITUDE. He is not looking for the nice people, He is looking for the committed people. Committed to His relationship with them. People who will wake up in the middle of the night, and say Father, let’s talk, as we were saying yesterday before I slept... God will never keep any secret from you if you walk in that terrain. Ask Abraham. Genesis 18:16-17