The difference between father, a father and the father is of great significance to the life of every child. Stating the three implies that there are difference between them. The second to the last paragraph is A KEY for all ladies but kindly read along as we go through this:
Father is the one who has the ability to join his input with a woman(mother) to bring forth another creation(baby), through sexual input.
A father is the one who takes responsibility of the birth of a child.
The father is the one who nurtures and brings up a child in good values and lasting character especially through his examples and godly teachings. God indeed showed Himself to us as this type of FATHER other than the one who just contributed in giving birth to a child without adding any moral, financial and emotional intelligence to the child.
You will agree with me that every man falls into either of the above category, although some falls into just 2 out of the 3. In other words, a man whose sperm can’t produce a child, but through adoption was able to be THE FATHER to that child is also FATHER. Even, a man who has his own child, but also adopts is also in that category.
You might be wondering that FamilyPrincess has started with marriage theory. Well, I’m not here with marriage theory, I want you to see something sacrosanct to building a lasting home.
“There is no ideal man and there is no idea woman”, so is the saying, this implies that there is no ideal marriage. But, do you know that there is indeed an IDEAL HOME? How do I mean? From the definition of ideal: a person or thing regarded as perfect., simply put, an ideal home is a home regarded as perfect. “Ehn! Ehn! I knew you are wrong, there is no ideal home anywhere” Alright! I agree, but you will also agree with me that there is no BEST way to solving any marital challenge. I mean the approaches have always been peculiar to each home. Please, read on:
Someone once ask me a question: Who do you want to marry? And I replied with my list, she said, just give me 3things you want the man to possess. So, I try to look for 3 things that cover all the traits I have written. I tried and tried, eventually I noticed the summary is GOD! GOD and GOD! I mean something like this: Someone who loves God (this implies someone who walks with God. Will be pruned, corrected, elevated, commended, cherished, specially loved…by God )
Someone who obeys God (this implies someone who has a purpose to fulfill. Will be instructed, directed, guided and taught by God)
Someone whom God can depend on (this implies someone who works for God. Will be willing to spend and be spent for God)
A man whose vision is in the above perspective will surrender willingly to God to work on him to be an ideal man/husband/father. Ask me of a woman who is frustrated, and I will present a wife who is out to change her husband. No one can change anyone, the wife can’t change her husband, neither can the husband change the wife. The only thing we can do is to pray to God to change them to the positive ways we perceived they ought to be and as individuals, we can only submit to God to work on us in order to change positively our simply bad ways of living. James 4:7 makes it clear, that it is only when you submit to God that you will resist the devil that wants to devour your home and that devil will FLEE.
See some of the features of THE FATHER:
• He is dependable and trustworthy
• He believes in hands-on involvement
• He has self-control
• He is selfless in nature
• He balances his marriage and parenthood
• He is a great model
• He is a provider, providing the necessities of life
• He is a source of encouragement
• He is a protective
• He is a wall of trust and security
• He is Affectionate
• He has the patience to listen
• He is a good example both to the kids and everyone around
• He teaches his children values of things/people and not the price/worth
• He not only respects his children, he also respects the mother of his children
• He is a good financial planner: He saves for the future
• He is a visionary
• He is a man that finds fun in spending time the kids
• He also respects and love his in-laws
• He is kind and gentle
• He knows and values the importance of family
• He understands that when things changes, you don’t react, but you interact, first with God and with your wife, then the children.
• He has vision and ambition…
I can continue listing. The essence of a lady having this list is not necessarily to look for a man that has all the above qualities. Because, such a lady already has a template/plan and strategically, she will pray her husband into having those qualities. Even when her husband does not possess some, she is smart enough not to confront him or to change him, but to pray to God who can change him and also submissively walk him into it.
May the Lord give all our women/ladies an ideal home and a Christian home, where God is the Commander-in-Chief and husband/wife are the instructor, while the children are the students. May we all come out excellently well in Jesus name.
Thank you so much for reading. Please share/like/comment. God bless you.
CONFESSION: As an instructor in our home, I choose to follow the Commandant’s order and be a good example to both my co-instructor(my wife) and our children.
I am an ideal husband, my wife is an ideal wife, our children are ideal children and our home is an ideal home.
PRAYER: Father, may your WILL alone be established in our homes in Jesus name.
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