A man said to me after reading the last post on “Emotional Affairs” or rather “Emotional Cheating”, that he just have to find an alternative to his adamant challenge. He said and I quote, “My wife doesn’t know how to kiss”. I said, “Ehn! Ehn! Teach her na!”, then he said, “You don’t understand”. Ahhhh! At that stage I knew something is wrong somewhere, because he later confessed his wife has mouth odour and he gets irritated…
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There are levels in marriage that the love that makes you to propose will not be able to keep you together anymore. Then, it will take courage, determination, discipline, integrity and God that will keep you.
At the same time, married need to remember that they are no more two but one. God has joined you together as one, Matthew 19:6 When you see each other as two, it will be difficult to correct the other party without the thought that he/she might be angry or hurt. But when you see each other as one, and you prayerfully correct in love not with disgust nor disdain, you will have your desired result. If you don’t see that person you are in relationship with as one with you, please seek the face of God and let Him guide you. It might be a sign God is telling you something important.
Although, the truth is after you have accepted a man or woman into your life to be your spouse does not prevent you from seeing someone better than the person, but emotional stability, discipline, self control and maturity makes it easier for you to handle, even anointing won’t help.
Someone once said and I quote:
“Relationship works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you’ll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, attractive, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you’re in a relationship with.”
With such discipline, maturity and self-control, no matter how attractive, beautiful, handsome and rich someone is, your spouse will not leave his/her first rank.
I have also realised that, being married and exposed to stable sexual activity has exposes one not only to be sensitive to sexual signals, but to as well create one. And when you fall for someone, you don’t even know when you begin to send such signals or feel funny…
At that time, it’s not anointing nor speaking in tongues that will help, but discipline, self-control, integrity and emotional maturity that will respond to the NO the Holy Spirit is saying to you. Peradventure lust has captured you, CRY FOR HELP. Sin strives in secrecy
At times relationship hit the ground, but because it has been made strong through commitment, prayers, emotional stability and God, you just bend down and pick it, dust it and move on. Unlike a union that is like egg, hits the ground, and off it scatters.
I pray that God will uphold your home and strengthen you as you journey together in Jesus name. As God helps you, please don’t forget that when love fails, your emotional maturity, integrity, discipline, self-control, sensitivity, will bring love back on track.
I love you!
I love your home and want to see it fulfil God’s own purpose.
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