A man said to me after reading the last post on "Emotional Affairs" or rather "Emotional Cheating", https://kfpark.com/emotional-affairs-2/ that he just have to find an alternative to his adamant challenge. He said and I quote, "My wife doesn't know how to kiss". I said, "Ehn! Ehn! Teach her na!", then he said,...
Let me share an emotional cheating scenerio:
He flows easily with female gender, some even label him "romantic". When his marriage suffers, he gladly shift focus to emotional affairs option. Gets involved with an interesting, intelligent, smart, funny lady, with whom he spent as many times as he desires in the name of work or busy. The chemistry was obvious, but no sex neither did it ever occur? But, must you wait till then!
They made a connection with each other every morning, and their chats became more and more personal. He definitely talked to her about anything, although all in a way to satisfy his emotional hunger. "I talk to her about anything, including my wife, because my marriage was so unhappy. She really know how to satisfy my emotional needs.
Really! Okay! Bravo!
I was in the euphoria of our birthday celebration. My sister was 8 and I was 5. I was the happiest girl in the world; laughing, dancing, singing, eating and drinking. Each time I watch the video, somehow, I just knew I was a celebrity that day. What made it special was that it was...
Whenever we want to embark on a project or create a template, we always have an end in mind. Whenever a tailor wants to sow, he/she has an end in mind before starting. Whenever a woman wants to cook, she has an end in mind. Whenever we want to start a journey, we always have an end in mind. In essence, everything we do has a proposed end; from schooling, to getting a job, to getting married, including serving God.
When there is change of story, there is an end to long-awaited time. God will change your story this year and cause abundant rain of blessings to fall upon your life and marriage in Jesus name.
Waiting and feeling depressed/frustrated in the Kingdom principle is a NO! Proverbs 3:5-6 affirms that if you trust in the Lord He will direct your path, and Isaiah 49:23b crowns it that if you wait on the Lord, you will not be ashamed. Peace during waiting is a sign of TRUST. And when you trust God, he reciprocates with your desired miracles.
Waiting period is not a wasted period if you chose to wait with GOD. Sometimes, its God training and teaching you to be a tough soldier.
At times, all you need is persistency to get that one sign like Elijah did in 1 Kings 18, be consistent, be patient for God to bring about your desired change and He will. Don’t quit until you see that one sign that will land your miracles into your hand. If the Prophet of God has been tired after the 6th time, what would have happened? Don’t give up! Help is on the way for you.
My heartfelt goes to singles who got their heart broken and thinks that is the end of the world. Well, you might say, “You don’t seem to understand, I know what God told me…” and you go on and on. Yes! I cannot understand because I was not the one who is going through it as you. There is an effect a broken trust has on the participants, please, ensure not to allow a broken relationship to have the effect of a broken marriage. It’s a relationship, not a marriage, so, if you think it is a manipulation from the pit of hell, follow Paul’s admonition, submit to God, resist the devil and he will flee”. Stand up and take your stand with God, and let God take over. But, if God says you should move on, then, move on.
I met a lady, who was in this kind of situation, and while she was praying, God told her to forget about the brother, she thought it was her mind that was deceiving her. She undergone emotional torture for 2 and a half years before she realized that God had given her the antidote, but she just didn’t accept the offer and she only realized that when she saw the guy was married. Meanwhile, God might be asking you to stand up and speak His word to confront the enemy Rev 12:11 “And they overcame him(the devil) by the blood of the lamb and by the word of their testimony;… In this case, let the word of God be your testimony. Speak what God has told you, and the confirmation He has given to you from His word, and let God take over. Don’t allow the enemy to get at you, as you speak His Word concerning the situation, just act as if nothing happened, to the lady, he will come back with a proposal and to the man, she will come back right on her knee to tell you she is sorry, and she is ready to be your true suitable helper.
There are close to 8Billions people in the world, no one has the same voice as the other, at times there are similarities, but never the same. This means there are as many voices in the world as there are people. Voices are conveyed in form of ideas, suggestions, counsels, books, movies/drama etc. You attract...
You need knowledge to interpret your vision, so that your vision can become a reality. Vision without knowledge, is like having eyes without the capability of seeing - its useless. If Joseph had not had a solution to the interpretation of Pharaoh’s dream, he might die a prisoner. Hence, you need the knowledge of God for marital fulfilment.
NOTE: While applying this second principle, you will not only know who you will marry, you will also learn basic things that will lead to successful marriage, and you will imbibe some values too.
The third principle is to WALK IN IT – Once you have applied the first two principles, it is important to know how to walk along the paths in order to be victorious and be a reference point, then, WALK in the light of the truth you have found. Follow the BIBLICAL PRINCIPLES of marital fulfilment.
I will conclude with Pastor E.A. Adeboye’s emphasis on 3 things that can cause marital delay. Spouse delay may come because you/your spouse to be are special and precious. God knows your future. Your future is settled with Him. He knows who is going to be your perfect partner and if you allow Him, He will perfectly work it out for you. Meanwhile, while waiting on God and trusting Him, be careful of shortfalls. Learn from Abraham and Sarah.
In quick succession, delay might be because you don’t like what God is presenting or it could be caused by forces of darkness, Daniel 10:1-14 and lastly, it can be due to your own disobedience. Numbers 22:10-32
The second one can easily be dealt with, but the first and the last point, you really have to speak to yourself and face yourself with the truth as you present your matter before God.
God’s choice will always be perfect for you, and part of the perfection is LOVE! You will also like the person.
Many waters have passed
Many challenges have hit you
Many battles have confronted you
The fact that you are still standing is a sign that you are a winner and that you will continue to win.
The fact that you are alive is a pointer that you are an overcomer
The fact that you are in APRIL is a confirmation that all will work together for your good.
God's plan for your life cannot be shaken, only BELIEVE!
Keep winning!
I love you and cherish you!
Even if the situation staring is pointing death to you and you don’t believe any change can come, please hold on to your believe in Jesus, don’t let it shake, because, that is enough for that situation to turnaround.
Your experience right now might be confirming the doctor’s report. Your experience right now might be confirming your family history. Your experience right now might be enforcing the curse placed on you…but Who is he that saith, and it cometh to pass, when the Lord commandeth it not? Lamentation 3:37.
I charge you today to believe God and live. He will definitely not put you to shame, see how Psalm 25:3 puts it...
